When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.
Maya Angelou
Everyday I go to the store, cafe, coffee shop, I go out see and meet different people.They are total strangers to me, I know nothing about them and who they are, however certain things don't take much time to tell quite a lot about a person right away.( for me at least):
* The way a person treats animals:
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treating in a bad way those who won't be able to defend themselves, say or do anything back is the worst.People who love animals and treat them with love and respect have a special spot in my heart.
* The way a person treats waiters and other staff:
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I've worked in a hotel here in China, I know what it is to work in a service industry, it's the hardest country to work in, trust me.You are constantly running, the whole eight hours.You have to do your job, smile all the time, be friendly and make the client happy.Almost all the clients were truly nice, I had to work only with foreigners, however I could witness how some clients were just so very rude to my colleagues, out of no reason, just because they think lesser of people who work in this industry or because they lack education and have lots of money.Treating other people like garbage because you think you are better than them tells a lot about who you are!
* If a person judges and treats in a bad way people who are poor:
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if a person tries to judge a less fortunate person how he/she is dressed or where he/she lives it's automatic block for me.It's silly and shows that there is no empathy in this person's heart.
* Person's partner:
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It's very interesting but looking at person's partner can really tell you a lot about this person. It's like a reflection in some way, a deliberate choice he or she made, the second piece of the puzzle- look at the partner and see the whole picture😁
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Having said that, I know that there are some circumstances when people can behave in the way they never do.Some may have a bad day or something else that's going on in their life,but overall these are the small things that tell about a person big time.
What do you think?What things can help you tell who the person is?