So you have found that spacial someone, and you want to ask said person out on a date, your arms start to shake and you get tongue tide, what do you do?
This is the complete beginners guide to asking out that spacial someone.
I have been posed that question many a times as working as an agony aunt and there is no real answer to it as everyone is different.
But with these helpful tips I am sure it will steer you in the right direction, and who knows if lady luck is on your side you might have a date tonight.
Asking someone out for the first time is always hard, it's all about timing and what you say to the person you want to ask out.
The best thing to do is find out what the person your into likes are this can have a big impact on your chat up line.
Example.
If you find out Donna is a big fan of Ice Hockey buy two tickets, approach Donna and say as simple as "Hi Donna, I have a spare ticket for the Hockey match on Saturday, would you like to come?"
This is a real Ice breaker. and if she likes hockey as much as she has made out then you should be on that date before you know it.
If Donna says yes, then this is the next thing to say, "I can pick you up if you like, we could go for a drink together first then on to the game."
This line is great, as now you have just asked her out on a date. making something that you might have thought was hard easy.
If she says no to drinks and no to hockey then, really you have pretty much no chance. you could always brush her off by saying, "oh, I heard you liked Hockey so I thought you might like to go, It's ok because (enter some other persons name here) will go with me.
This makes it less embarrassing for you and also make it look like you were only asking as you had a spare ticket.
If you have known that person for some time and your in the friend zone then this can be easy changed, a Bottle of wine, some chocolates and just simply ask, if they like to spend time with you then the chances are they have been waiting for you to ask them for along time.
My do's when asking some one our.
*make sure your breath is fresh, a couple of mints and your a way
*Dress in your best, it's always the better to be dressed to impress
*aftershave, Please only a little it as to much can be as bad as not wearing any at all
*confidence, smile be happy enjoy what your saying don't be shy.
*girls find it hard to ask some one out just as much as us guys, so just ask.
I hope you found this post useful and i look forward to seeing you all in the next Beginners guide.
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