Ladies,
through my own experience and by advising other women , I had a 100% return on this: Leave the man you are crazy about ALONE, seriously...
Men hate clingy because it puts undo pressure on them to be the sole source of your happiness. This should not be so.
Men are attracted to a happy woman more then looks alone. Try this for a week ladies, married or not or just dating, don't call don't text or reply right away, but, when you do, do so with a cheerful tone and KEEP IT SHORT!
I'd like feed back here on how well this went for you.
Men tend to start chasing again, which is what they are naturally prone to do, if you don't give them room to do so you will miss out :)