Sometimes we think that if there was some kind of magic or instant formula, it would effectively change the behavior of a family member. The changes that endure are only those that result from living right principles.
On the contrary, we will not teach our children, nor will we be helping them change their behavior, when we use the opposite of the virtues mentioned above, such as sarcasm, fear, humiliation, force and impatience, we actually know that it is the evil one and not our Creator God who wants us to use force and hostility.
Through the study of the holy scriptures, we can learn to be better parents by following the example of our Creator God in His dealings with His children, in contrast, we can learn what we should not do as parents by observing the methods Satan uses.