When I seek for advice about how to handle someone that really annoyed me especially people whom are older than me, I always get this kind of answer...
Ignore them, that is how old people are.
Well, I tried ignoring for fews years but then I'm off my limits. I can't take it anymore.
What is it that I can't take?
- The negativity of their thoughts.
- The way they talk about some people that they hate but act differently out front.
- The way that they keep repeating the same story about how they hate that certain someone.
- They way that they always think of negative outcomes before it even happen.
Why does this kind of attitude makes me angry.
- It affect me negatively. It gave me a stressful life because I can't acccept it as it is. I can't accept how do people live too much of negativity within. A little bit is unusual, Some is normal but too much is just like a raging storm at sea.
What I notice about me?
- I have too much "How" and "Why". How do they become like that, Why do they always think about negative stuff and when they said something posisitive, it felt like they are a liar.
End up, the only thing I can do is to avoid if I can't just accept how they are.
- Sometimes, distance are a good things. It's not because I didn't care but it's just because I'm tired of making myself search for positivity within all the negative attitude around.
Well, this blog is merely a share of my thoughts. It doesn't applied to anyone else amd without any intentions to harm others feelings.
I'm sorry if I hurt anyone feelings through this writing, I don't mean to.
But...
If you do have any share of thoughts regarding this kind of situation, do share. It can help me to be better with my patient.
Maybe it could help other too
Thank you