“She is free in her wildness, she is a wanderess, a drop of free water. She knows nothing of borders and cares nothing for rules or customs. 'Time' for her isn’t something to fight against. Her life flows clean, with passion, like fresh water.”
― Roman Payne
I am WOMAN.
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It honestly never ceases to amaze me how so often (many) men seem to assume that because you are a beautiful woman that you have nothing between your ears! I cannot speak for anyone else… but as for me, I will say this... I know I am ANYTHING but stupid - and this is where I bring the men into the conversation – so please make sure you guys all have your big boy undies on ok?!
All too often, men seem to have this "socially habituated" perception that because women are emotionally focused individuals and operate quite differently to men, that our heads are full of cottonwool? – Well, I can only muster one response to that - MWUHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
Yes boys, we are indeed VERY emotionally expressive creatures. We let our heart speak to us long before our mind ever does - and yes, we often respond to circumstances with extravagant expression - but neither of these qualities renders us unintelligent. I am really very tired of seeing women being "played" by men, because they wore their heart on their sleeve and the men that revel in this kind of activity, insultingly laugh at those women because they were an “easy score”. No - they weren’t - they were simply being emotionally authentic and they gave you their trust. That does not make them stupid. That makes them genuine! For the sake of perspective, I could direct a question at the men who behave in this manner… why do so many of you have your dick on your sleeve?!
I am not throwing a blanket over all men as there are PLENTY of good men in this world… who hold value to and appreciate the women in their lives – and I must say - hats off to all of them! However, the reality of the matter is, there are so many MORE who are just all out there for themselves! (Just as there are women precisely the same - but I am not lesbian and don't have any experience in that so it is not my focus point here – hahaha!)
They "waltz" around like the world owes them some kind of favour - but you know what... it DOESN'T! - So I suggest you tone it down a little there cowboys, because in case you missed the memo... women are quite capable of standing on their own two feet these days and we HONESTLY don't have time for self-absorbed ego-maniacs!
So, at the risk of being "burnt at the stake" right now - I am going to say this... For eternity, women have been "controlled, belittled and often completely disregarded" - men ruled the world. They were the providers, the hunters and women the gatherers. Women - were never afforded the chance of being "the hunter" - and that has now changed dramatically. Many of us are now the hunters AND the gatherers!
Don't worry - we still love and need you guys though ;) because lets be honest…who doesn't need a good roll in the hay or a cuddle – JUUUST KIDDING!!!! (Before anybody runs away with that one lol)
My point is this - Women are AMAZING creatures! –and ANY QUALITY MAN that lives with a GOOD WOMAN will bear witness to this. (Please don't feel left out guys... you are also tremendous.... but this post is not really about your levels of awesomeness hehe) In short - I just wish... that more men saw AND appreciated the value AND INTELLIGENCE of the women in their lives
Until next time...
Much Love from Cape Town, South Africa xxx
