If you want to “get” something, a helpful tip is to give someone something. Create a pattern of reciprocity.
One way to inspire people to give to you is to give to others without expectation that they will give back to you directly.
Giving to others is a gift to you because you get seretonine release.
Give value before expecting a valuable gift.
Think of others before thinking about yourself
If you are at work, think about what your boss might need to complete a task. Think about what you have permission or ability to do that can assist your team. How can you help your work before expecting your job to give you something - because your job is already giving to you.
How does this suggestion read to you?
Thank you, Baru
