There are people who hope that a difficult situation in their life changes itself so that they can finally breathe or feel good and happy? If this is your case, it is time to realize that waiting for an external change to relieve your discomfort is an ILLUSION. If you believe that your current conditions prevent you from feeling good or happy, it is because you give them power over you. It's time to better understand your creative process. We have learned to believe that if we had more money, more material possessions, a relationship as we want, a job that suits us better, better behavior of our children, we believe that it is only then can we be happy and serene. It's actually quite the opposite, because when you wait, you make yourself dependent on external circumstances or others for your well-being and your happiness, and you continue to feel helpless, discouraged and unhappy.
Yet you have much more power than you think! Feeling good, feeling loved, feeling happy to live, all of this can begin in you right now, whatever the circumstances presently in your life. Your state of being does not depend on external circumstances, it depends only on you, your perceptions, your beliefs and what you decide! Easier said than done, you say. And in the current state of ignorance, fear or disbelief of many, it must be admitted that it is a difficult task and that it may seem impossible. But you have to start somewhere and the realization that you can control your state of mind is the first step toward change, toward the restoration of your inner power. And as you step on this path, as you take that first step, you will be supported in a way that you can not yet imagine. You will be supported by your spiritual family, by your spiritual being, by the universal forces that are present and guide you constantly. Over time, you will also draw around you, if that is your desire and your belief, all the material help you need to progress on your life path.
When you expect an outside change to feel better, it can also be a sign that you are afraid of letting something go or of losing something. In other words, you hope that external circumstances bring about the change you want because you do not dare to take responsibility for this change to not endanger your gains.
EXEMPLE
say your boss does not like your work and constantly criticizes you. The most common reaction is to think that it is the source of this unpleasant situation. And you continue to put the responsibility for this difficult situation on this person and his behavior. You do not dare to say anything or do anything for fear of losing your job, which for you means running out of money or losing your security. You suffer the situation without understanding the role you play in it. And of course, this is not about endorsing the behavior of this boss. It's about taking back your power over the situation and starting feeling good about yourself whatever happens. And it is in this that lies the extraordinary power to change your circumstances! The first thing is to accept that the situation is what it is. The second is to understand that this situation is there to help you evolve and regain your power. If you can accept that and you can start feeling good, despite the circumstances, you will have taken a big step to transform your experience?
Then you continue the process by observing yourself and asking for clarity on what you need to change to transform this situation. Observe your thoughts and emotions, write down how you feel in your body. You will come to understand what are the negative energy frames that block the expression of your creative force. You may realize that you do not believe in yourself, that you do not trust yourself, that you are afraid of rejection, or that you need the approval of others. Whatever your awareness, your job is to let go of negative energy frames that limit your potential for expression. And this can be done as simply as in deciding it. This experience allows you to understand that it is through your unconscious beliefs and fears that you give others the authority and power to judge you.
And you start choosing thoughts that make you feel good. You imagine yourself happy in your work, surrounded by people who support you and understand you. This work is done on many levels at once: your awareness of everything that's going on in you, your decision to let go of everything that limits you, your belief that you can change your experience, and that doing this rebalancing energy, your external reality will change. And while you are doing this work, experience has shown me that most of the time, the circumstances will change by themselves, because they will conform to your new state of being, that is, to the new vibratory information that you emit.
EXAMPLE
your boss may be replaced by a new one or you will be transferred or even your boss will adopt a new attitude towards you that will correspond to your new state of mind ... or you will feel ready and confident to choose a new job because you will clearly feel that this is what you want to do.
Do not wait in vain! Be the person you want to be right now, absolutely nothing prevents you, except your own beliefs and perceptions. The change you want to see outside of yourself or others must first exist in you. Be this new reality, this new consciousness by being present to yourself, accepting and loving life as the inestimable gift that it is. This gift is that of love, because your present human life offers you the possibility of finding and feeling the vibration of true love, that state of joy, freedom, inspiration and hope which is our nature real.
