Past
People come and go in our lives and most leave an impression whether it be good or bad.
Our relationships with others teach us and help us grow if we can see past the hurt and blame.
Look within and ask yourself, "what part did I play in the relationship?
Was I a good, loyal friend? Did I gossip behind their back? Did I use people tomy benefit?
Present
What about your current relationships? Are you honest? Do you step back and see if you are giving 100% or are you looking to blame others?
Take today and reflect on your relationships with family, friends and your partner. Where can you make amends for your behaviors? You cannot control, nor expect the other to reciprocate at that moment.
Once you accept your part in the relationship, establish boundaries for what you want and need, express to your partner, only then can you learn and grow.
Is this a relationship worth saving? Is the other person willing to respect your boundaries and grow with you? If not, love yourself, respect yourself enough that you may need to move on. You may have outgrown the relationship and are on your next journey.
Relationships as not easy and take work! Don't walk away without taking a deep look at yourself, your part and your willingness to accept what you cannot change and change what you can!!