"Will you marry a non-virgin girl ?"
Once I was being asked this question by one of my friend in a very aberrant tone.
It made me think. It actually made me think a lot. So here's my answer:
"Well, If you put virginity as a medium to judge her character, then you are going wrong dude. It's completely fine if she isn't a virgin. Just because she won't bleed on the wedding night, doesn't mean she's characterless. Just remember one thing, every story has two unique chapters, of which one is the most secretive and unsaid one.
Maybe she was raped, maybe she was forced into that thing. But instead of handling her, instead of supporting her, what we people do is call her a "SLUT" ? Molestation wasn't HER plan. She isn't a slut. Nor she was !
Or maybe she loved a guy alot, maybe she trusted him to such an extent that she let him come closer, but the guy simply used the girl and left. So is that really a genuine reason to not to marry her ? No ! It isn't.
Definitely, I'll marry her. Instead of taunting her, I'll provide her with the love and care she always craved for. Character and virginity are two completely different terms. I won't marry a girl with bad character but there is no problem in marrying a girl who lost her body to someone.
It's just that the reason should be a genuine one. Moreover, it will be my pleasure providing a good life to the one who has already went through the worst. Love is not about virginity, my friend !"
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