Hello friends of Steemit, I want to give them a message but for it you have to read the whole post, DO NOT DISCRIMINATE OBESITY WITHOUT KNOWING WHY
I have my reasons to say that many people are not to blame for their excess weight, they will always influence factors to make the person obese, thyroid problem, genetic tendencies, depression or bad eating habits, and these are given by psychological problems, sometimes.
Her overweight is caused by GENETICS and a medication.
Her childhood story, difficult because she was a victim of bullying in elementary school, at recess, and part of high school, because of her fatness. You can see how insecure in the photo, in fact she doesn't like the photos, there are only two other pictures of her in my camera.
I did not eat others, well in her childhood yes, like every child, but my sister and I EAT THE SAME, the same amounts, even less, because she tried not to eat so much, make diets and exercise but did not lose weight, that led her to have many problems....
Later on she was trying to study, but because she was on a ketogenic diet, her brain didn't have enough fat to function properly and they had to put her in a mental health center; she couldn't study anymore, she was always an unstable girl, because of all the discrimination she suffered.
The medicines he took and sometimes takes ruined his life, GETTING BACK AND TRIPLE of what he already was.
I play big sister with her, Ella is 29 and I'm 21, it's 8 years apart, luckily I'm half nerdy and she asks me everything before I make a decision.
It pains me very much because at one point she was a beautiful girl, her angelic face and gym body were incredible, I dare to say that she was much prettier than me and because of her self-acceptance, obsession with her body among other things made her lose control.
She is now fat, and not because she eats like a pig, it is NOT because of her eating habit, in my house we all eat the same thing but the only one who gained weight was her. It's sad to know that I eat with that assurance that I'm not going to get fat and she can't eat and enjoy what I eat because of her tendency to get fat, (it came out to my dad)
For me it is still beautiful, she is not obese but she is a fat girl, we call her'' goldi'' for affection, loving and with a sense of humor, I am really upset when someone makes fun of her in the street, they ask me if she is my mother, sometimes they call her'' madam'' and the truth is that she is very young. She says she feels better and I'm okay with who she is, but, it's very hard to believe an obese person who feels good about being overweight.
MY MESSAGE: Don't discriminate obesity without knowing why, don't know what harm you may be doing to that person by mocking you, that person may seem strong but when you get home I assure you that before bedtime he breaks down in tears for ALL the bullying he received during the course of the day.
The first picture: My sister and I, taken with my BLU advance 4.0 phone