Ever felt that a woman's mind is like the deep depths of the universe. Noone really knows whats out there and noone can truly understand it.
LIES you've been told.
I'm going to be straight here and tell you that the majority of people have been manipulated and brainwashed by the movies they watch. For decades, it's been the same thing over and over again.
We've all watched movies where there are two leading actors - primarily male and female, there is always some resistance first but eventually the guy gets the girl. Great, lets all celebrate that but the WAY that is done is exactly the opposite of what women want.
I'm gay and I have more masculine energy than feminine but in this article, I'm trying to talk to you by citing examples of a standard hetrosexual relationship. Although if you are gay, you can also easily take something away from this. You just need to know what kind of person you are. Are you most masculine or are you more feminine?
What the heck am I talking about?
Please refer to my article --> https://steemit.com/relationships/@whatawombat/understanding-relationships-two-makes-one
The problem.
In movies, you always see the guy chasing the woman. Being the do gooder. Always saying yes and catering to everything. Constantly following her around and just generally being lousy and blowing up her phone. You see so much of the guy doing the chasing, contacting, just being overly needy and overwhelming and it turns into a situation where the girl ends up falling head over heels with the cuteness of it all. Men end up acting like women and the woman ends up acting like the man.
When the woman rejects the guy , he ends up over pursuing more and more with the thought that she would eventually just adore him and love his passion for her. Ew. No. creepy
STOP.
It's not cute. It's exactly the kind of behaviour that drives women away in REAL LIFE. It's not a movie. Neediness and love bombing are not good and it turns women off. It makes them feel like they have no freedom.
Wanting to talk on the phone for hours on end, constantly professing their love, always buying her things, needing reassurance, being clingy, not taking no for an answer. These are the things that women don't want in a man or in a person with masculine energy. Be it in a lesbian/gay relationship or a hetrosexual one.
When men or people with masculine energy do this, it means that you are essentially not in your right state. You are a beta male or woman. These are all feminine qualities and it doesnt work. Two people who are both in their feminine will NEVER work. Sexual polarity needs to be maintained
What women (Feminine energy) want - Listen up.
Let me get straight to the point.
Women want masculine energy. They want someone who they can respect and not treat like a doormat. Someone who is their equal in every part of life. Not someone who feels or acts like they are not worthy of your love and attention so they over compensate in every part of their life.
People have this notion of action. They feel like they have to always do something but they dont.
- Stop being needy. It's unattractive if you are a masculine person in that energy, you should be sure of yourself.
- Do your own thing. Stop making the women the center of your universe. It's suffocating
- Let her text you, let the person who is more feminine text you, let that person get in touch first. You dont have to keep blowing up that person's phone all the time.
- Give her enough space so that they can actually miss you!! Scarcity creates value.
- If she is not responding to you, let her be.
- The more the woman likes you, the more she is going to do everything to be with you or get your attention. You don't have to do anything!
- Feminine energy is always attracted to people who know what they are doing, confidence and purpose of life.
- Respect yourself and everyone will respect you.
I feel like I've covered the basics of the do's and don't. I know people might not agree but I've seen it happen in life, every single day. Just think about it. There are always two types of people - Masculine and Feminine, you are one or the other, never both at the same time. I don't care if you're a man dating a man or a woman dating a woman, or a man dating a woman. It stays the same for all.
I'm sure you've seen relationships where the woman is more assertive and confident than the man, yes, that means that the man is in a feminine state and the woman is masculine. It works for them.
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