Hello Steemit ... good night. Hopefully today we will always be in good condition and healthy. Amen.
Often we feel bad and sometimes grumble, when our friends or relatives come just to ask for help. But on the contrary, when they don't need it, we are just forgotten.
And is that natural? Of course it is very natural, but try not to let your heart just let it go, because it might invite a feeling of complaining and hate.
If there are friends who come when you just need help, be thankful! Because it means, you are like a light in the darkness for him.
Yes, it really doesn't feel good if we are remembered only when we need it, but after that it seems like we don't want to need it anymore. Na'udzubillah
But do we have to worry about the nature of others? No, you don't have to worry about it, because if you need it, it means you are seen as more capable than him.
Help anyone who comes to ask for your help with sincerity, no need to remember the ugliness of his attitude and behavior, because after all their attitude to you let God be the recipient.
Help even without feeling selfish, and hope for goodness from God alone, because God's reward must be more perfect.
About the nature that you think is not good and it is not polite at all, let God reward it.
Just calm your heart with full of patience and gratitude, because without you knowing when they come asking for your help, it means you have been considered more perfect than him.
So there is no need for you to busy polluting your heart with hatred, because not a few of us who are hurrying are not easy and grumble soberly, if there are friends or relatives who do so.
In fact, the grumbling and hating nature will only make your goodness vain before God.
Stay calm and be patient, because than those of us who ask for help from others, it's better for others to ask us for help. Because it is more noble than needed, even though it is true that the nature of need and need cannot be separated from us as a social creature.
If an incident like this befalls you, be grateful wisely, do not grumble, nor hate, and let God reward you.