Many of us are sometimes out of control listening to stories from other people, sometimes we suddenly convict, judge, and even worse sometimes we join in hating.
In fact, we still do not know the truth, and it could be that the story that reaches our ears has a lot less. That is why it is said that if we have eyes, why do we see others with our ears?
Because it is very unfair if we only judge others only from other people's talk, because not necessarily the talk we hear is really the same as the reality.
Therefore, Whoever you are and wherever you are, be wise to judge others. Don't judge just because you hear about it from others, but treat that person according to what you see, not what you hear.
Cover your ears from the bad according to them, but look wisely and carefully how he really is with your eyes.
Then, conclude how you should behave with him with great care and in accordance with God's rules.
Because recognizing it through stories alone is very unfair, because it could be that the one who tells you does have an inner problem with him. And when it is like that, it could be that the story that reaches you is not true in reality.
Just judge other people, do not be rash in concluding how his life is in accordance with what you have heard, and do not try to convict just because you already know the bad story that is a little.
Because, this heart is changing, and Allah is only God who knows how his heart is.
Anyone must have a mistake, so before you judge see how they really are with your eyes, then compare with what you hear from others. Because you are afraid that if you only judge it through a story, you will end up slandering, because the fear you hear is only a story of his past.