Hello Steemians.... now is night of friday.... night Sunnah. How do you do ?
O wives, if you want your children to serve you later, especially if he is a man then give an example by the way you support your husband to worship his mother.
Because really retaliation is real from God, if you want to be treated well by your children and daughter-in-law later, then be a good daughter-in-law, be an intermediary so that your husband can always be good to his mother.
Do not vice versa, do not let you become an intermediary so that your husband is disobedient to his parents, because after all his mother remains the number one obligation, even though you have become his obligation at this time.
Do not let you give silly choices like "choose me or your mother", but keep reminding your husband not to forget his responsibilities and continue to serve his mother.
But my parents-in-law are not very kind to me, if that's your defense then the right thing to solve this problem is to continue to be good to him, don't reply with the same hatred.
Why? Because when you give in and continue to be patient, that's where you will win, because any evil will eventually lose out to the special goodness.
And remember, your existence as a wife is as a conditioning for your husband, so you should remind him to never forget his mother.
Because her mother is the main one for her, even though you are her new responsibility, her mother's responsibility must always be first.
Women must also know that when men focus on something, sometimes they forget the others, including their obligations to look after the mother.
Then how far? Far apart is not a problem not to fulfill its obligations as a child, because technology today is increasingly sophisticated.
Remember the wives, your duty is not only to be his companion, but a reminder to him when he is being negligent in his obligations.
Do not let you deliberately let it forget its responsibility (mother), if you do not want such things will happen to you later in the old days, because God's revenge is very real.
So make sure you really become conditioning for your husband, remind him when he forgets his responsibilities, remind him to always be devoted to his parents, especially to his mother.
Because it is really happy in your old age, if your children's wives later apply to you, then make sure you first apply well to the mother of your husband.
Goodnight and have a nice dream.
Thank You.