I heard stories from grandparents, or at the time of their marriage to marry girls. Now, in many places of our country, there is a need to satisfy the groom by dowry, or if the boys want to get married in the day before, the daughter's family would have to pay. To get married, the money will be written in the name of the wife of cash or house. Have fun listening to those stories.
I was reading a report in The Guardian that this situation has now been created in China. As a government official, the ratio of marriageable men and women to 100/136 Women are more likely to choose their own life partner than many women, so their needs and needs also touch the sky. On the other hand, many men there have been in danger. It is difficult for a worthy wife to talk about, finding a wife and marrying a wife.
This problem has become more prominent in China, from rural to urban migrant workers. There are about 278 million men working in the country's manufacturing sector, construction sector, and small job workers who are unable to find a life partner and are forced to live alone, lonely. Many experts believe that this disparity between men and women is affecting the social and economic environment of China.
In 2010, a government-sponsored organization surveyed more than a thousand workers in 10 cities that migrated from the country to the city and found that many of these migrant workers are suffering from loneliness and loneliness. They have no romantic life. Another study found that more than 70% of the construction workers said that the most difficult aspect of their lives is loneliness.
In the Guardian, Liu and Zin are highlighted by China as a cause of concern for two construction workers.
33-year-old Liu's house in a village in Jiangxi province of China. He lives in the city for work. When he went to the village for various holidays, his parents started arranging for him to see each other for a girl.
When he went to his home last year for the ninety-year holidays, he had to meet nearly a dozen girls for his marriage. But unfortunately, the pair did not even pair up with a girl. What is the match, that demand of girls!
Pearl River Delta, a factory in China, is a laborer similar to Liu, a gene. In her stubborn cousin's insistence she went to meet a girl for marriage. Within a few minutes of the meeting, the girl explained to the jin, "If you want to marry, you must have an apartment in the gene. The car will last for a while. Again, the apartment will not work in the city center, but the bank has at least 2 million yuan (22,500 euros) of deposits in the jin.
As such, finding a girl for a wedding is a difficult thing to find the golden deer, for the migrant workers in the Chinese city. Even then, every time the home is returned, this tired work has to do with China's migrant workers, so that the hope of being successful is very weak.
As a teenager, Liu leaves school to help his parents in their agricultural farms. But shortly after that, he went to the area in Hong Kong's Sinjin area to earn money. There he worked 12 hours a day, six days a week.
Due to not having too much institutional education, Liu did little due to wages, hard work, risky work. She had to work for a long time and earning very little because she did not have the opportunity to love. According to Liu, "It's not that I'm very shy. But I did not have enough money to become self-confident. When a man is wealthy, girls are easily attracted to him. "
Occasionally, Liu is worried about her loneliness, and she feels even more worried about her parents. Parents made him suffer so much. Now they just want to see their child as gentle and happy. Besides, neighbors also poke them in different ways. Men are not considered to be the greatest failure of a wife in China. Liu is the only son of her parents. To maintain the continuity of the dynasty, he also needs to get married. Her parents are very concerned about her due to her. But what to do, Liu! He is not trying to do less.
This problem has been going on in male-dominated China over the past several years. Though China is campaigning for girls not being married to 27 year olds, but actual images are different. In China, single rules were effective for a long time, and at the time, giving birth to a daughter was discouraged. Abortion is also seen when the chances of a girl getting pregnant. As a result, the number of girls in China has decreased significantly. China's position against nature's natural rule is creating a serious problem now.
There are various social inequalities in China on various indicators, which are present in any country of the world, more than any society. China has played a key role in this disparity, and there is a similar type of system called Hawthalstrict Registration. Since 1950, the system has been divided into cities and rural areas by introducing this system. China's prospects were handed over to the urban people, and the rule of the people of the majority rural areas was ruled by them. Which has affected China's entire economy. Despite the large number of workers in China's rural areas migrating to the city hoping for a better life, despite having lived permanently in the city for many years and despite their big contribution to the country's economy, they do not get the benefits of government-registered residents as a result of job-bakery, housing, education and health.
Nearly two-thirds of workers migrated to the city are more than 35 years old. Those workers who are living in the city for a long time are not interested in going back to the village. But their income in the city is very low. They can not afford to buy a house or a car for themselves. But to marry a girl from the middle class of China's city, it is essential to have a home and a car.
However, getting higher paid jobs for high-skilled migrants is not so difficult in China. But for studying at the Higher Level, there is a need to pass the Admission Test for the boys' boys, which is very competitive. There are also urban boys in urban areas. They can not afford to compete with the city's wealthy children.
Because of such a horrific situation, nowadays the teenager's age does not go away - because of the pressure from the family to marry early on the boys. A 22-year-old worker from Sichuan province explained this situation, "Nowadays parents call home only to find out that soon find a girl for themselves."
Even for the sake of emotional comfort and loneliness, these young people in the rural areas are very much attached to the family. The family is the only refuge. So when parents arrange to see a girl after each other, they can not do it even if it is very annoying and monotonous. As a result, the bargain is needed to find a life partner.
This arrangement has become the issue of marriage in China, much like the market. They sell women through the bargain on the market, to the men's money. Girls are just like a product. The more money he can buy from that house to take home. If the money does not have a wife!
Even after such a hassle, the fortunate friends who meet together, there is no guarantee that the ultimate happiness will be there. If the girls agree to marry Tahahura as soon as they get married, then in a short time she breaks the marriage in many cases. In a county in Henan province, in 2013-2014, about 75 percent of the divorce rate among migrant couples is 85 percent. The government of that country is also concerned about the rate of high divorce rate. The urban workers who marry in the village also have different problems. When they go to the city to work in a village village, they are involved in the marriage and other issues. As a result, the family broke. The loneliness came back, the life became miserable.
Not just men, girls too have to suffer this loneliness and loneliness too much. Due to the breakdown of relationships and family, many of his adverse reactions have been created in the lives of women.
After all, in the lives of many people like Liu and Jean continue to look for love. They are continuing to live a life of a little love, intimacy, social status, and continue to live!