We’ve all experienced, at some point, our man withdrawing and pulling away. Out of nowhere he tells you, ”He loves you but he’s not in love with you anymore.” Or he’s met someone else, or he’s going through a really hard time and is no longer sure of what he wants anymore. Suddenly – you’re devastated, life feels unbearable, and you’re afraid of never finding a man like him again. I get it. I’ve been there. The quickest way to get your man back – is by getting your energy completely off of him and focusing on yourself during this time and getting yourself back, first. When you do this -‐You create space for him to move towards you and pursue YOU! A man needs space to build and feel attraction. Right now, if you believe this man who’s pulling away is your soul mate, “The one” -‐ and you’re meant to be together – it will happen.
Holding on to the thought and belief, “He’s your soul mate” may actually be working against you getting him back and from the love you really want. He can feel it if you’re holding on and trying to get him back. During this time of healing, you’re going to feel so many emotions. One minute you’re going to feel sad, then angry, and sometimes you’re going to think, “Things are going ok!” In the blink of an eye you’ll go back to feeling bad and confused and have so many questions AND then all of a sudden this sense of urgency to contact him! Don’t do it. Don’t contact him!