Broke Nigerian men keep complaining that women reject them because of their lack of financial ability. This self pitying consoling thought line is always sold by these men to compensate their poor ego, but that's not usually the case. It's not always because of being broke. Sometimes, maybe, most times. Now, here's the reality. We always assume that every women rejects a man because he's just broke. This makes us ignore the possibilities of other inadequacy that could be a deal breaker in men. Money is not all. In fact, it's a myth that women are after money. A lot of broke dudes still fall in love and get married. So? There's something these rejections are about that is far from money. Cool, you don't have money. How about your confidence? Your self esteem? Do you exude low self esteem and talk out of pity? How intelligent and engaging are you? Can you make intelligent conversations and brainstorm with a woman? Do you have a vision? A feasible and promising vision you're relentlessly pursuing? How's your sense of humour like? How's your sense of dressing? We know you have cheap few clothes as a broke dude, but how do you use and combine the ones you have? How romantic are you? How clean are you? What are your values like? A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they rant, they cry, ‘Its because I am broke..’ ‘Women love money .’ No bro. You're your problem. You lack money. What else do you have. Or is money now the essence of your person? See, I keep saying it, Money doesn't make a man. Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies. Take away money from them, nothing is left. Poor souls. Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially. Go check your confidence, intelligence, humor, resourcefulness, maturity, focus, etc. Go check all of these. Many times you're rejected for something far from your broke state. Ain't meaning to brag sha.. But pre-rich me, women be falling in love with me anyhow. Lol. I don't have money, so I keep wondering when they say women love money. It's not always about it. Yea, women love money but it's not the way we make it be. Broke dude, go fix yourself. Aside financial inadequacy, there might be lots of inadequacies you have. �� Kindly SHARE! Solomon Buchi Bartholomew Life Coach/Motivational Speaker