You two are absolutely lying to yourselves. You would 100% not do that.
Whatever problems in your life are making you want to vanish are the exact things that would actually go away. All of a sudden, you’d want people to notice you. I promise. You guys are talking nonsense.
Private jets, huge houses, employees, exotic cars. You would jump on those in a second and stop pretending otherwise because there’s a mountain of proof that almost nobody actually does what you’re claiming.