Everyone has a picture of themselves in the mind how they really want their lives to be. The reality of what you see is a function of your mind.
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Nothing really happens by accidents in our lives. Some things have been premeditated for a long time and they are brought into being without realizing our subconciousness helped to put such things in our path in life.
The ability to think and bring forth ideas is in every man. No one is actually a dullard but geniuses are what they are because of the things they set their minds to and are predisposed to.
The environment with which one was raised plays a major role in their thinking process. A child who grew up among failures and those who think life is unfair might end up same way, except there is a new information to that child to say, Hey! You do not need to end up like your father and his brothers, there is a world out there for you to explore and make a difference.
The ability to use wisely such information is wisdom. Wisdom is from God.
There are those who were raised in an environment of wealth and opportunities, still ended up in the streets.
Let God's ability, His wisdom guide you unto all truth.
I am grateful for the ability to use wisely the informations I have received, though it couod be better but still could have been worse.
I am grateful for you reading this piece.
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In everything give thanks.
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