Within a context of self-confident confidence and poise, can be considered synonymous words but the first is more related to the spirit of believing more in talents and capabilities and the second has to do with serenity to the time to act.
In addition, both concepts are inherent characteristics of a person with a high degree of emotional intelligence and therefore empathic.
But security and poise are not something that can be achieved overnight, much less for people who have never worried about their mind control and have always been more concerned about the way of their peers than their own.
There is no other way to retrace that path of personal insecurity than to make a serious plan to change your mindset.
The mental scheme that has guided them until now must be changed in its main bases: routines, customs, ideas, beliefs, neglect, defects.
A change of habits from the way of thinking before each image that is seen and act before each circumstance that is presented.
A mental self-programming is not easy to achieve but it is possible if you are moved by faith and perseverance even more than the knowledge that is always something desirable.
If you have faith you have a fundamental weapon to achieve self-confidence. With faith and perseverance, everything we do to improve ourselves will have its reward.
Faith gives us the motivation and with the latter, everything we do to be a safe person will work.
You can even choose the form or resources to auto program yourself: you could choose to read hundreds of books; auto-manage yourself; let a guru guide you; practice meditation or yoga; change habits radically; make a list of dreams in your journal; pray to the saint of your predilection or to God. You could combine any of these options to your liking.
Whatever you want, you can actually get it whenever you have faith in the means you use to achieve your goals. Why do not you start with getting the confidence and aplomb you want?
It will be an extraordinary journey through the positive and optimistic thoughts of the mind guided by faith, which is a virtue as essential as it is mysterious.
We finish this post remembering a phrase of the great French writer and parapsychologist Paul Clement Jagot in his book "Autosuggestion and Suggestion" of the early twentieth century
"It is the optimistic and positive thoughts that should be retained, contemplated and developed. Apart from its stimulating value in work and business, they prevent all psychic and physical disorder. Nothing facilitates these thoughts more than a well-defined object and a plan of existence seriously elaborated to arrive with the years to success, after many progressive states that will be pursued successively. It avoids thinking and living with that incoherent mother of all disorders "