"Love descends suddenly..."these are the words of the song "Heart" sung by the legendary singer Leonid Utesov knew and loved in the Soviet Union for many decades. First time it was performed in the film "Jolly fellows", filmed in the distant 1934, the year.
But not about the movie, not the song I want to tell you in this story. It will be about a very bright human feelings - love, that is for all ages. The same one that "descends suddenly, when you least expect it!"
And because she did, and goes, arrives, settles in our hearts, without making concessions to age, and more... Then it all depends on the circumstances of life, from how to dispose of the fate, what tests she will fix you some.
Well, if everything happens incrementally, with no major obstacles: met, fell in love, got married and grew old and died in one day! This is the ideal, but rare!))
It happens, but very rarely!
However, the fate of many couples fold under this scheme, with minor deviations.
But very often it also happens that:
"people meet,
people fall in love, get married",
and then Bang - and broke up, like, they were wrong, making love is something else. Then find yourself another mate, and so on.
But it also happens...
Have met two people, between which flashed the light feeling - love, but they were not destined to stay together, lit them sudbinushka, so much so that they can not meet, does not add up in any way.
And only in rare cases, they can smile good luck!
Well, as is the case with me, for example.
But first, answer the question, please: do you believe that children's love can be forever and to survive, despite long years of separation, almost of a lifetime?
Now I'm sure of this because I heard today on the phone the words Declaration of love that we've been waiting for from the boys, who, entering once into my heart stayed there forever.
Because of the young age, we just didn't realize that we have to communicate then with each other. We were just good together. We walked with him after school. He walked me home, even though he had to go in a completely opposite direction.
Perhaps I will a little tell here about the beginning of our friendship, turned in a strong first, infant attachment, and then gradually converted to love.
Everything was very simple. Boys, when you want the girl to pay attention to them, trying anything to catch her pigtails to pull, to seize any thing and run away and let him catch up, and of other small boyish pranks.
Eugene didn't pull my pigtails. He sat at the Desk in front of me and often the lesson was trying to get my ink. Older people remember that before the advent of ballpoint pens wrote simple pen that was dipped in ink, and those, in turn, poured in a special small inkwell with a hole for the pen in the middle of the lid.
That day I had an inkwell with a very large hole, and when Eugene tried to grab her, I in turn had grabbed her. In the result, the ink is abruptly splashed the boy in the face, some of them hit him right in the eye.
We had a wonderful teacher. She quickly grabbed Eugene by the hand, he led away in a sanitary room and washed his eyes.
I the rest of the day shaking, imagining what I will do Eugene and his friends that change incited him to revenge.
But - nothing happened. Eugene after school waiting for me in the schoolyard and offered... friendship. Since then we were inseparable. He walked me home after school, helped to be on duty after school. We found what we talk about, we no longer needed.
But it just so happened that we moved to another area and I was transferred to another school. Long distance, different shifts, time has done its job. We inevitably broke up, especially since we were only thirteen years old...
Again, we met with him half a century later thanks to the Internet. Hearing for the first time in so many years so dear to my voice, I realized that subconsciously waited for Eugene my whole life, unwittingly comparing contenders for my hand and heart with him and letting failure due to the fact that they are not to be conformed to his image.
Then there was the meeting where we excitedly told each other about themselves, about how there was our fate. Dreamed about what would happen if we broke up then, or at least met before.
In fact, the realization that our children's sense was the most real love comes to us only during our first meeting after a long separation, but he confessed his love to me my Eugene only recently and while on the phone. And just now he told me that he remembered all our meetings, seeing home after school and other cute little things that happened to us then.
But we are again going to see where he is, the gentleman is going to tell me you love me on bended knees.
Honestly, I don't know what I expect from this meeting.
On the one hand, I should be thankful for the fact that a miracle happened!
On the other hand, I want to ask her a question: why so late??? Why not 40 - 30 - 20 years ago, when we were young and all we had ahead of???
Nevertheless at some time I felt really happy!
Thank you, to new meetings! And - love, be loved and happy!!!