Loved your post! I have 4 cats on my own and I love them and no I'm not an spinster I have a husband and a baby, going back to the cats each one of my cats have their own personality, one o then treat us( my husband, my baby and me) as her cats! she get to my shoulders to lick my ears and my hair as if I'm other cat, but tha's just her, the others are pretty much indifferents unles you have a box fot them to play hide and seek! People misjugde them because they don't go very exited when the owner gets home or just dont go jump around you like a dog would, but they do have their way to show you love. So cat haters read a little bit about them before you go shoooing a cat!