what triggers my ending of listening and wanting to pay attention to a certain someone, well, usually i am long suffering, but I don't like to suffer, when the person falls into one of the slots or type of category of willingly willful ignorance I give up on that person, they should have been listening to someone like me years ago, i don't try to change the minds of bigots who got the mainstream official lies who then close their minds. but if your still reading my comment remember this quote from burtrand russel; paraphrasing here; " its a shame that so many ignorant minds are so convinsed like zealots so sure they are right, and so many, many wise minds full of wisdom who know better, who are full of doubt due to knowledge of so much."