happy forever: the sermonism awakens a defensive attitude
part eleven
Being accepted as one is constitutes a basic human need, due to which the person seeks the necessary satisfaction. the lack of acceptance hurts the dignity, damages the love or resentments manifested by the other. In fact, a person who is not accepted can start to spend time outside the home to find someone who accepts and loves her as she is, a resentful person often secretly promises to take revenge. a first line of defense may manifest itself in a verbal counterattack, or it may be presented through stinginess, stubbornness, hostility, or through other acts of hostility. the more sermonized, one of the spouses complains or criticizes, the more resentment the other manifests. In fact, a person who is not accepted can begin to spend time outside the home to find someone who accepts and loves her as she is. A resentful person usually secretly promises to take revenge.