Hello friends of steemit in this opportunity I take the time to explain what these two terms mean like fetishism and paraphilia, which many tend to think are the same, but They are not, this post was born because of the surprise that a television program generated in my mother and the best way to explain it was this.

Fetishism: It is the dependence of some object or thing that is used as a stimulus for sexual arousal and gratification. Many fetishes have a close relationship with human body parts such as clothing or footwear.
Paraphilias: It is the disturbance or deformation of sexual manifestations and the sexual act.

That is to say that among them there is a noticeable difference that is the following paraphilia is an abnormal sexual behavior as a source of pleasure, while in fetishism, an object is used to achieve greater excitement.

For example, a man has a fetish with pantyhose, and every time he has sex with his partner, he asks her to put on pantyhose, because it generates more excitement, feel them, touch them and see them in his partner, another part this man is in a sexual act and his partner does not have pantyhose the sexual act will not be the same way, but he would reach a normal or average excitement. In the case of paraphilia, a man who is aroused with corpses (necrophilia) manages to relate to a living person and establish a sexual connection or act, could not have or maintain an excitement, since he needs a dead body to achieve it.
Necrophilia is one of the best-known paraphilias since there have been many cases of men working in areas of forensic medicine who have seen, heard or confessed to having sex with corpses.

Below I list the 5 most popular fetishes.

5 Submission and domination

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4 Voyeurism

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It is a practice in which the person enjoys and has pleasure with the simple fact of seeing naked people and even more seeing them having sex, even when they are not part of the action.

3 Role plays and costumes

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There are different types of erotic costumes to wear as a couple that can add that different spark to the relationship, since for many to see their partners with some disguise allows them to find another level of excitement.

2 Anal sex

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This in addition to being a very strong fantasy for men can also be for many women, since everything derives in "the pleasure of the forbidden" and things out of the ordinary. This adds an extra amount of morbid and fantasy as well as to achieve new and better orgasms.

1 Threesomes and orgies

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The sexual fantasies of many men are strongly inclined to the idea of being with more than one woman in the case of trios, or being able to have sexual relations while watching others have sex in the case of orgies. Today is not only a fantasy of men, as many women also dream of a trio, which can include either a man or even another woman in bed.

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We present the 10 less common paraphilias.

1 Dacrifilia

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Excitement by tears or crying. It occurs when a person sees another person cry, either known or unknown. So without crying in public places!

2 Misophilia

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Sexual attraction for dirty clothes.

3 Ailurofilia

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Sexual attraction for cats. Uncommon and very inconvenient for these animals.

4 Hifefilia

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Excitement due to the possession of a foreign object, clothing, hair, skin, etc.

5 Formicofilia

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Sexual excitement when crawling ants, snails, worms or small animals and insects on the genitals. There are those who like to feel that "tingling"

6 Capnolagnia

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Excitement by smoking people.

7 Tecnosexualism

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This fetish is characterized by the attraction to robots. People fantasize about reaching orgasm through the sexual stimulation of humanoids, machines or any kind of artificial intelligence device.

8 Amomaxia

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Excitement only when performing a sexual relationship inside a parked car.

9 Asphyxophilia

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Attraction by strangling, suffocating or suffocating the couple during the sexual act, with their consent and without actually killing them. Good thing they did not kill it or it would be necrophilia!

10 Spectrophilia

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Its origin dates back to the Middle Ages. It is characterized by the search and need to have a sexual encounter with beings from another world and ghosts. Unlike necrophilia, which is done with corpses of humans, here it is important to do it with spectra.