I completely agree with what you're putting down. I've both consciously taken a long break from porn and also taken a break because I didn't have access to it.

Doing it consciously is a lot more rewarding because you get the benefit of knowing that you made that choice, therefore reinforcing the truth that you have control over you.

I looked into tantra a long time ago. Interesting. Looks difficult.

Like most things worthwhile, probably worth it though. Finding that connection with your partner is pretty awesome when you can.