You have found true love when you have partaken in the giving of love without asking anything in return. Your love in that manner will not be confined to emotion and feelings but to charity.
Charity is true love; a love that is given freely. A love committed to do every act of goodness to others. Just like loving someone even if you do not necessarily like the person or do not know them. To love the unlovely is indeed true love.
You have true love when you have known the ultimate act of love – the laying down of one’s life for someone.
Stay loving!