It's a very good question, it's been thought a lot, frankly, that's what I did. They say that his mother breathes and his father gives life. His mother breathes yes, but his father gives life? is discussed. It's been years and no one has given me life. I thought you did, it wasn't. Father does not give life, father gives you life lessons. Sitting and getting up are things you take as an example. The only person who gives life to a child is himself again. If he can't do that, he waits for someone else.
He trusts someone very much, expects a life from him or gives that person the life he has built on his own. Because you expect him to fix your stupid life that you built. It does what you've been waiting for for a while, fixes it, everything will be great, but it doesn't happen all the time. He has to go, he takes the life he made beautiful and goes away with you, you can't blame him. Because he was the one who made your life beautiful. He has made the life you built, even the life you have been struggling with for years, wonderful in a few months, and he takes it with him when he goes.
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Humans do not do anything without expecting anything in return. Naturally, he expects something from you. That person made your life better. So what did you do? What change has happened in his life? If the answer is nothing, you can't ask her back for the life she took and took away. It would be silly to ask anyway. Your life suddenly becomes beautiful, but someone else is doing it and you want your life back from him. Nobody is a sucker, honey. He doesn't give it back to you as if he hadn't done what he was trying to do, no matter what.
If we give an example, this example would be good, listen carefully now. You buy hours with your own money. You wear it on your arm. At first, you don't look at it too much, you don't get used to it, but then you act by constantly looking at it. Some time passes. Your watch breaks. Let's say the battery is dead. Not everyone turns on that watch and inserts a battery. It can't. You will find a nice watchmaker. Plugs in the battery. Time starts to flow again for you. If you don't pay the watchmaker, he won't give the watch back to you and you will feel emptiness. You can't say give me back my watch because you didn't give him anything to give. I mean something like this. If someone makes your life better and then leaves, before you blame them, think about what I did for them.
If you haven't done anything for him, sorry, he will not give you back the life you gave with your hands. So I have no reason to blame anyone. I only blame myself. Why did you forget the money of the watch? Likewise, why didn't you make her life better? No one will give you life. You will build your own life. If you want someone to make your life better, you will know how to make their life better.
Each person is a flower, in fact, each one has a different scent, texture and happiness. Or sadness. Some are inaccessible, some have thorns. Each flower has its own characteristics and requirements. Some love the sun, while others want direct sun as the last thing. One needs watering every day, the other is enough to water at certain times of the week. In short, an orchid and a cactus cannot grow under the same conditions. Every plant has different maintenance needs depending on its species, family and season. Some potted flowers can only survive outdoors in natural conditions. Even if they are indoors, if they do not get enough sunlight, there will be no trace of their first day's beauty and efficiency. They cannot survive in closed environments such as home-offices.