Hang in there! My kiddos are under three so I haven’t had to deal with teenagers and their wild hormones.

My wife and I read the book called Parenting with Love and Logic: Teaching Children Responsibility by Foster Cline and Jim Fay.

The below paragraph is copied from the Amazon page for the book but it does an excellent job of summarizing the book. It’s awesome and I’d encourage you to check it out.
PRODUCT DESCRIPTION
This parenting book shows you how to raise self-confident, motivated children who are ready for the real world. Learn how to parent effectively while teaching your children responsibility and growing their character. Establish healthy control through easy-to-implement steps without anger, threats, nagging, or power struggles. Indexed for easy reference.

I know I said it already but hang in there. Kids are the best thing we have.