Lu xun told a story in his treatise:
The family was overjoyed at the birth of a boy. When there is a full moon, hold it out for guests to see.
One man said, "this boy is going to be rich." He was thanked.
"The boy is going to be an official," said one. So he got a few compliments.
One man said, "this child is going to die." So he got a good thrashing from everybody.
The one who was beaten had only himself to blame. He was telling the truth, but in congratulating a one-month-old child on this, it was an inhuman "truth".
Heart of love, under the mouth of merit, good talk, is from the heart of kindness.
Master xuecheng said, "what you say is actually what others think of you. We all want to change our destiny.
Good talk, good luck
Sanmao once said: "I smile, then face such as spring flowers, must be able to move people, let him be who. A good tone is like a bright smile, which has the power to touch people directly. A good talker is never out of luck.
Before huang bo became famous, he went to a scene directed by Yang Asia, in which he played a robber. The director looked at huang bo, turned around and said to the staff around him:
"Did you find this? This is not nonsense! It's a small part, but it carries a lot of weight. What the hell is that?"
Huang bo was not angry and said kindly, "director, would you like to see me play it once?" The director let him play once, unexpectedly, the director repeatedly applauded.
Huang bo said, "I have another way of acting. Would you like to have a look?" Let him do it again.
"I have another... "
'no, no, very well!
Seen as a man of good character and professional dedication, he was offered the role of "crazy stone" by ning hao, who shot to fame with his "black skin" in Qingdao dialect.
After he became famous, huang bo was often teased on various occasions, some for fun, some completely malicious fun, huang bo can deftly resolve the uneventful.
Most famously, he was asked by a reporter whether he could "replace ge you" and huang bo said:
This era will not stop you from shining, but you can not cover the glory of anyone. Because people have created the world, in the Chinese film that time, people are the filmmakers of the era. We are just a few younger generation who continue to move forward and dare not make mistakes.
Huang's answer was neither servile nor arrogant. He did not belittle himself.
Good talk, is a kind of grace and do not let others embarrassed understanding, is engraved in the bone of the cultivation.
"Your life fortune, depends on your mouth often say to people's words", speak well, the road of life will be more and more wide.
The happiness of a family begins with good words
There is a real tragedy in Thailand. At a convenience store, a 21-year-old man was playing a mobile phone game at the cash register. His father couldn't look at it and shouted, "why don't you die playing so much?" Then he took out a pistol and gave it to his son.
Unexpectedly, the son took up the pistol and shot at the head, ending his young life, leaving his grieving parents.
Some people feel close to their families and often choose their words. Little do they know that vicious words are like sharp knives that cut people's hearts.
The closer you are to your family, the easier it is to talk.
Liang qichao is happily married, and his nine children get along well with each other and become accomplished, which is inseparable from the good talk between parents and children.
One day, liang sizhuang, the second daughter, was depressed because she only got 16 places in the exam. Liang qichao comforted her daughter and said, "zhuang zhuang, I am very satisfied with the result. It was a great privilege for you to get sixteen out of thirty-seven. Good darling need not worry, need effort only good."
He often said to his children:
Future achievement, of course, depends on talent. I admire zeng guofan for his two words: "no pains, no gains". What is your future achievement? What do you want to do with it? What do you worry about it? Do what you can and do what you can.
No condescension, no beating, scolding, punishment, just encouragement, just trust, just respect. Under the influence of such a good family style, liang qichao's nine children have made extraordinary achievements. It can be said that "one academician, nine children are talented".
We are always polite to others. We treat our loved ones with impunity because we know they will never blame us.
However, bad words may put the whole family in a breakdown, the happiness of the family, start from a good talk, don't let the people who love you cold.
A kind word, warm in three winters, hurtful in June
A girl was about to cut her wrist and asked online how to find the artery in her hand. Netizens who had never met before offered this answer to stop her:
"There are no arteries in your hands. Don't look for them, I love you."
'I love you, dear, I've hidden your artery.'
"You have to go to the supermarket, find a bottle of pulse, and then read it the other way around. Don't ask me why I'm telling you, because I love you."
"Don't be impulsive. We all love you."
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Good talk, is the world's goodwill watch.
How could she be willing to let go of such a beautiful world when the goodwill of everyone in front of her becomes a strong and gentle stream of warmth?
A good word three winters warm, harsh words hurtful June cold. Born a man, please speak well, please be kind.