I keep saying this, if you have not heard it before let me say it again.
GOD DOES NOT CHOOSE A WIFE OR HUSBAND FOR NOBODY
He has given you freewill to think and his words to guide you. If you buy a good news bible and read it from head to toe, you will understand what God expect you to look out for in picking a spouse, then use your common sense and figure out the rest. It is not the duty of a pastor. Thank you as you learn.