Love is not a feeling, you do not fall into it! We fall in lust but not love! Love is a decision!
Jesus is love! We decide to follow Jesus! In following Him we love Him first and we love our neighbours second! As we become one flesh in marriage we love and care for our wife like Jesus loves His Bride the Church! That is true love!
Worldly love is nothing more than physical feelings of lust, lust to satisfy the flesh!
As followers of Jesus we have more than that or should at least! This real love is not affected by anything, it doesn't get discouraged, it never gives up, it doesn't dwindle nor grow, it's always there and always stable! Just as God is love and God does not change, so love does not change! If your love for another is anything less than this it is not love!his is where always people get disappointed because they think love is a feeling yet feelings change real and love does not!
Remember the Word of God always on any matter, (Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? ) So then from that scripture you can see anyone who is led by feelings will always be deceived yet someone who is motivated out of pure love, that is the love of God, Jesus will not be deceived because it comes from God and not our own evil hearts!