I copied this from Rosemary Charles Loto on whatsapp.
Talk about sex, talk about sex before marriage. I repeat, talk about sex,you won't be cast into the lake of fire in your sleep. Or be struck in the mouth by a bolt of lightening from God.
I see no reason why you shouldn't spend quality time talking about an act that can make or mar your marriage. Something, well, you may be doing everyday.
I know a man who married through his pastor in church. Can I say I'm not particularly fond of the practice of going to the pastor to inquire of a lady before your intentions will be communicated to the said lady by a committee? Just imagine..
So this man married the wife through the pastor and the wife didn't know where his husband worked or where he lives because that would be too much temptation. I agree, no, I do. Because knocking at a man's door equals to very heated intercourse. Orgasmic coitus. Which may even leave you pregnant and bring shame to the household of the 'saints'. Of course.
Brothers and sisters, that 'holy' marriage conceived in the womb of the church lasted only one week! Yes.
The woman realized that brother lived in a miserable room and had no reasonable job, she was prepared to endure that having sponsored a better part of the wedding.
The stunt that sent her fleeing the house like Joseph from Potiphar's horny iron grasp was the man's manhood. And no, it wasn't, 'Please hide my identity , my husband's manhood is too big, anytime we're having coitus, I cry out in pain, what do I do? And I love him so much' Mba nu..
The poor strip of flesh does not have the capability of swelling and growing even an inch bigger. Very flaccid piece of flesh. She fled and never looked back, even the church could not hold her back. She didn't even bother laying hands and acting like the daughter of Zion she was. People, she fled.
Marriages are breaking up every day because people have allowed religious primitivity, societal restraints and pressure to blind them.
You must not have sex before marriage. But you can talk about it. You can go for a test. You can prepare for it. It is not carnality. Even Jesus said unto the multitude , ' For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? (Luke 14:28)
Sit down with him or her and count your costs. A lifetime is too long for you to be bankrupt. Yes, do it with that mouth with which you take communion and speak in tongues. Yes, I said it. Coman beat me. If the only words you know are 'For God so loved the world..', there's a book called Songs of Solomon, read and meditate therein day and night.