Hello friends:
When I look at the world and consider how lost people are becoming, I Marvel. this is because what you don't know can't save you but can do you a whole world of hurt.
Solomon a great king confused what am about to give you light on.
he wanted to fill his void with what ever he thought could work and at the end he confessed
vanity upon vanity, is vanity!
To be able to leave your days well you must know about the several voids in every man's life.
They are numerous but I will deal on a few if my finger will allow the bulky typing.
1_ the void of love or to be loved
2—the void of a partner
3—the void of children
4—the void of a supreme or Divine authority
Etc
The above listed void are what we will be concentrating on Though there are more which we might get to look at as time progress
THE VOID OF LOVE
Every one created by God experiences the desire to either love or to be loved
It is a feeling that gives men wings and can dare the impossible. The void to love or to be loved when filled engenders wholeness.
Love!
though a lot of people and culture have tried to explain what it actually means to love or be loved but none can categorically say they got it. Their definition is one out of many.
Love is a language and the soul of everyone must speak it sometimes else the soul feels malnurished which can disrupt normal function of a person.
I always wonder why people feel gross any time there is public show of affection.
The reason people act disgusted when someone close to them on the bus or on a tarmac is showing affection.
The people around are quick to judge but if you genuinely investigate their premise, you will discover it is founded on this fact: why are they showing us this, are they the only once in love?
get a room
The truth is at that time its more of jealousy and and questioning of their own void which they think has been filled. And they judge the show of affection just to mask the real feeling in their heart.
I realised that whatever made those people to act like that in public will also make you to if you were in their shoe.
There are Christians who are trying to fill their void of love with worshipping to God, it won't work because the God void is different and it comes with its own special love.
you can't place a round peg in a square hole
The love void house three kind of love:
Love for a spouse
Love for a friend
Love for your child
Love for you relatives
All these love are distinct that's why no man can love his children the way he loves his wife but does he love them? Yes!
So it heresy to ask a man or someone:
"who do you love the most, your wife or your children?*
Everyone has this void and this love void starts from child hood while there some void which speaks when someone come of age.
THE VOID OF BELIEF (deity void)
Every person on this earth has a supreme being they answer to. I know right now you are thinking what about the atheist yes they have a supreme being they bow to which is science.
There are some people out there who don't believe in science or God but they have succeeded in proclaiming themselves as supreme so they serve themselves.
The God void is the void every Mortal man seeks to fill through his or her spiritual devotion and there are a lot of it out there ranging from people to people.
This void is the longing of the soul to find completeness in his maker and it is a very important void to fill.
the belief in something more that life can not just be coincidental and there is a purpose behind existence and it the working of supreme being behind it or supreme event.
Does it mean that this void can be filled with just any believe or any thing out there? The answer is no.
The true filling of this void can only be in God almighty and not idols or other belief. He created us, understands us and he has promised to put his spirit in us to help our short comings.
a divine possession for excellence
A lot of people have tried to withstand the proper feeling of this void and have slipped into depression.
TEMPORARY FIX
A lot of people all over the world are resulting to easy fix. They fill an emptiness draining life out of them and a lot of things that matters are beginning to loss their essence and relevance.
They try to the parachute way of escape where by all you need to do is dive. it sound easy right? it's not
They wallow in the hard drugs and highly regulated materials. * and like the ride of every parachute, it doesn't fly forever. There will definitely be a landing spot*.
They wake up from their easy fix and realize it was never gone. Then they take it again, again and again until they get submerge.
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There are important void that most not be left unfilled. When not filled they can push of balance other properly filled void.
Have seen people who got married to the woman of their dream. They can swear that they love this woman and can die for her. Then suddenly their inability to fill the void of having some one to call them dad from the woman, their love was thrown off balance.
Sometimes they fight and then when they came to their senses will say: am sorry dear I don't know what came over me
THE VOID TO HAVE A CHILD.
the void to have a child is preceded by the void to get married. There are woman who have succeeded telling them selves they don't need a man in their life forgetting:
Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
These set of female due to lives circumstances have tried together rid of the void that only a man can feel forgetting that: because you hate it doesn't eradicate it from your design.
They actually succeed in staying without a man but what happens is this neglected void sneaks up on them making them biter and harsh on people around sometimes they become fully blown bully.
They are harsh to their colleagues and they are hated by their family members and have no friends.
They spend countless time with psychologist and to no avail.
The void of having a child is exceptional to an extent those who can't can to to the extent of adopting which is very beautiful.
it's only a damaged individual that will not want a child of his or her own. And in the world the percentage 3 against 97.
We crave for an extension which children are to us.
to be continued