After a rough week, our realization is people can be lonely. An individual can't imagine loneliness if they live with people. Real loneliness is when no one is beside you and you are all alone. Our lady's condition is still the same, we tried to find her family or relatives but we couldn't. We tried our best and the last thing we have realized was that she was all alone and she considered us a family.
We are heartbroken particularly my wife, she was very close to her. Our daily routine remained the same from the last week. Hospital, home, and pharmacy most of the time. But yesterday I gave some time in my garden, I was really annoyed by hospital and home mortgage situations, so I took a pause. I worked in the garden to divert my mind so that I can start afresh week.
Suburban life is comfortable comparably to the big city. In big cities, people are always busy chasing their careers, most importantly behind the money where suburban people believe in a comfortable life. If there is food, shelter, and some money for living, people are happy here. I have noticed that people who live in big cities are lonely most. They don't have a family life and they don't get affection like suburban people. The place/ neighborhood where we live, people care. City people are lonely much.
Everybody knows each other and always interacts with each other. They believe in sharing and caring. That's why I and my wife had chosen to start our family in this neighborhood, considerably far away from the city, a long time ago. The decision was taken 35 years ago.
We drive to the city always, sometimes it's hectic but we are habituated with this life.
We planted some onions and potatoes yesterday and some greens. Greens are mostly in containers, doing experiments. We prepared a small greenhouse for winter though here during winter, the weather is not that harsh comparatively to winter countries. So, we can grow vegetables easily. I remember, last year we had so many fruits especially apples and plums. This year my wife bought a lemon tree and we are expecting some lemons soon. My wife wants a dog badly so maybe a new member will join our family soon. Our son is helping us find a good breed dog for us.
On Saturday while driving to the hospital, I have taken some random photos of the city.
We live in Kansas state, US
~Frenzyfire