1．別因同一個理由持續悲傷
教授在課堂上講了一個笑話，大家都笑了。半個小時後，教授又把這個笑話講了一遍，只有一半人略帶笑容。當教授第三次講這個笑話時，沒有人再笑了。最後，教授說："是啊，既然你們從不因為同一個笑話一次又一次的感到快樂，為何總因為同一個理由持續悲傷呢？
2.別為自己不需要的東西所煩惱
兩個人非常渴，喝同一口井水時，一個用金盃，一個用泥杯。前者覺得自己富貴，後者認為自己貧賤；前者得到了虛榮的滿足，後者陷入無謂的煩惱中，他們都忘了，自己需要的是「水」，而不是「盛水的杯」。我們在生活中也是如此，不要被自己不需要的東西所煩惱。
1 . Don ' t , for the same reason due to persistent sadness - -
Professor in the classroom and told a joke , everybody laughs . A half - hour later , a professor at the same time this jokes rehashed , only half of the people with a hint of a smile . When the third professor telling of this joke that no one laughed . Finally , the professor said : " Yes , so you never since one and the same jokes again and feel happy , always for the same reason as to why the persistent sadness ?
2 . Don ' t say the things that they don ' t need your worry
Two people very thirsty , drink the same water , one with a gold cup , a cup of mud . The former felt property , which the latter consider themselves poor and lowly ; The former is obtained for the vanity of the meet , fall into the latter in the meaningless annoyance , forget all of them , their need for a " water " , rather than " of water in a cup " . Our life is not to be things that they don ' t need your worry .
3.路的旁邊還有路
老和尚問小和尚：「如果你前進一步是死，後退一步則亡，你該怎麼辦？」小和尚毫不猶豫地說：「我往旁邊去。」天無絕人之路。人生路上遭遇進退兩難的境況時，換個角度思考，也許就會明白：路的旁邊還有路。
4.騰空「杯子」，裝該裝的東西
當一只玻璃杯中裝滿牛奶的時候，人們會說「這是牛奶」；當改裝菜油的時候，人們會說「這是菜油」，只有當杯子空置時，人們才看到杯子，說「這是一隻杯子」，同樣，當我們心中裝滿成見、財富、權勢的時候，就已經不是自己了；人往往熱衷擁有很多，卻往往難以真正的擁有自己。
3 . Road beside a path
asked the old monk monk : " If you step forward is dead , then take a step back , what would you do ? " The young monk answered without hesitation : " I tried to go to . " There is always a way . the road of life , consider it from another angle , perhaps : a path beside a road .
4 . vacated the " cup " , which they have in them
When a glass full of milk , " they said . " It ' s milk " ; When the refit of campesterol , people say ' This is rape " , only when the cup is empty , people to see the glass as , say , " This is a mug " , likewise , when our heart is filled with prejudices , wealth and power , it does not already own . people tend to be keen to have a lot of stuff , but it ' s often difficult to truly own their own .
5.不要被不重要的人和事過多打攪
一隻鼬鼠要與一隻獅子決戰，獅子果斷地拒絕了。鼬鼠說：「你害怕了嗎？」獅子說：「如果答應你，你就可以得到曾與獅子比武的殊榮；而我呢，以後所有的動物都會恥笑我竟和鼬鼠打架。」——不要被不重要的人和事過多打攪，因為成功的秘訣就是抓住目標不放，而不是把時間浪費在無謂的瑣事上。
6.心不想飛，翅膀必成擺設
雞最早屬於鳥類，它的的祖先原雞本來是會飛的，後來人把雞引進了家園，使它們不愁吃喝，再也不用到處飛行覓食了，它們的翅膀便漸漸退化，身子也越吃越胖，結果空長了一對翅膀，心不想飛了，翅膀只能成為一種擺設。
5 . Don ' t be no important things too much bother
a weasel to battle with a lion , the lion decisively rejected . weasel said : " Are you afraid of ? " and the lion says : " If you promise , you ' ll be able to get in with a lion contest of honor ; but I , after all that doesn ' t have mocked me and fight the weasels . " Don ' t be no important things too much bother , because the secret of success is to hold the target , rather than wasting time with pointless trivia .
6 . The heart won ' t fly , wings will display the machine
chicken belongs to the earliest bird , it ' s the ancestor of chickens was flying , and later introduced the chicken people have evacuated their homes , making them well - fed , and there ' s no longer on the prowl around the flight wings , they gradually degenerated , my body is weak , fat , the result of the empty pair of wings , the heart do not want to fly , wings only as a kind of ornaments .
7.別為不值得的事情再花成本
如果不小心丟了100塊錢，好像丟在某個地方，你會花200塊錢的車費去把那100塊找回來嗎？一個愚蠢的問題，可類似事情卻在人生中不斷發生：被人罵了一句，卻花了無數時間難過；為一件事情發火，不惜損人不利已，不惜血本，只為報復；失去一個人的感情，明知一切已無法挽回，卻還傷心好久……
一條魚問烏龜：「為什麼你遇事就躲，縮在殼中？」烏龜悠悠地伸展四肢說：「別人的評論重要嗎？那不是逃避，只是求一個安靜的環境而已。」
魚：「可是，被罵了也不在乎麼？」烏龜看了魚一眼，慢慢轉身：「這就是為什麼我活得比你久的原因，生活中做好我們自己很重要，別人願意怎麼說，就怎麼說吧！」喜歡你的人，你怎麼做都是對的！不喜歡你的人，你做的越好越看不上你！
7 . Don ' t spend a couple of things not worth the cost
If you accidentally lost a hundred dollars , seems lost in a place , you will spend 200 fare to make the money that 100 back ? " Answers : A stupid question , but similar things are happened continuously in life : being bullied to scold , but have spent countless hours sad ; for one thing , and - - at the expense of their However , spend a lotta bucks just for revenge . The loss of one ' s feelings , knowing that all have been irreparable , but also sad for a long time . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .. . .
A fish tortoise asked : " Why do you retreat into hiding , shrinkage in the shell ? " turtle slowly stretched out , said : " The people are saying is important , right ? That is not to escape , but to a quiet environment . "
fish . " But he is cursed to care at all ? " The tortoise saw the fish , slowly turned : " That ' s why I live a lot longer than you , in our own lives properly is important , someone willing to say , say it ! " people like you , you do what is right ! who doesn ' t love you , you ' re doing the better and more disdain for you !
9.唯有平靜，方能聽到心聲
父親丟了塊表，他抱怨著翻騰著四處尋找，可半天也找不到。等他出去了，兒子悄悄進屋，不一會找到了表，父親問：怎麼找到的？兒子說：我就安靜的坐著，一會就能聽到滴答滴答的聲音，表就找到了，悟：我們越是焦躁的尋找，越找不到自己想要的，只有平靜下來，才能聽到內心的聲音。
9 . Only calm , party can hear voices
Father lost his watch , he complained of being hunted by the roiling , may also find a half - day . like he ' s out , son quietly into the house , and soon found a table , the father asked : how can we ? Son says : I ' ll sit in silence for a while , but I will be able to hear the ticking , the table is found , that the more we find , or agitated , the more can ' t find what you want , just calm down , he can hear your inner voice .