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Many years ago when I started to learn the computer, I have a habit, but also continued before the examination of education fall years old problems, always like to start before reading, and often reading, I think the computer is the case, first read the tutorial, And then go to practice, it is easy to master, which know that the computer is different from the theoretical course, reading when reading, but also understand the meaning of which to see that line of the program, that is not difficult, but at the beginning of the machine operation When the dumbfounded, and found a lot of time a "tiger eat days nowhere to the next claw" feeling, I was habitually think that may not read through the book did not read completely understand, so he picked up the book began to "study hard" , Sent a little head hanging beam, acupuncture shares, but found that the effect is still not very obvious. The The That time repeatedly hit the wall, so I was very fragile that self-confidence hit, and even began to doubt from their own IQ. You stand on the shore even if you see a thousand times others swimming, not as good as their own water to explore a useful :).
Later, inadvertently I found a trick, or began to learn the way to get started computer. In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, handsome, more practice. So soon out of control, I soon learned some of the basic knowledge of computer and related operating software, including self-learning foxbase, c, and later php and a few years later object-oriented programming language Java, etc. People may feel that the operation of the computer is very easy and easy things, but do not forget, but I was almost 20 years ago, when the computer is not so popular today, simply can not talk about universal, and even can be said to be Very rare and precious things, more than three years old people who have had this experience should understand what I mean from every time we go to the computer room to make an appointment in advance, and wear shoes and other small things you can feel that time Want to learn a computer or a very difficult thing, a private computer with their own assembly is very extravagant and tall things.
Confucius before the "thirty standing, forty confused" always feel disapproved, and later with their own age and experience the growth, oh, you say I narcissistic? Well, it should be said that with their growing age, began to realize some of their own philosophy of life, take my own, I think the human nature should be lazy, we have to learn a skill, or Other, compared to drinking, playing cards, smoking and some other entertainment to enjoy, always difficult to many, covet comfort, the pursuit of the original is the nature of people. Many times, you will find that if you keep a habit, or a way of thinking, you will soon be accustomed to this way, such as do not have time to think hard, and even more and more in which they do not want Jump out, you no longer want to leave this familiar environment, or that you are filled with a trace of the unknown future, you have begun to adapt and enjoy the existing environment and everything, you find one day it has been difficult to leave now have , The dreams of those young began to get away from you more and more distant, like a fast train was so close to you, but after a short time but leave you more and more distant, until one day, you finally have not remember From that gradually distant dream, as the car away from the train, and ultimately disappear in your line of sight.
But how can you change it all? My own view is that you need to act, not only to their own body, but also to their own thinking activities, so that the body is no longer tired, so that thinking is no longer lazy. After a while, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that you are getting more and more energetic, your mind is more active, and from time to time have a better idea flashed your mind, you are excited about it. The The Over time, come back, you find yourself compared to the past, began to board a new level.
The ancients often said that the ear for the virtual eyes see the real, I think this sentence is very reasonable, I often warned myself, did not personally see their own or did not fully understand the truth, do not easily express their views, Call someone else for no reason. I think it is not appropriate, and even foolish, for the kind of morally morally moral, at every turn on the moral point of the high point of criticism of others, I also disagree, because my view is that morality is used to restrain Own, rather than take criticism of others.
I believe that the relationship between people, the most fundamental essence is more sincere and inclusive. Sincerity can make you easy to be accepted, and inclusive can make people sincerely willing to contact with you. Not overbearing, approachable people will let you contact more people, get more respect, and more people live in harmony. Gentleman expansive principle will let you get more people trust.
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