空巢老人：在孤独中，人的尊严也会丧失干净。
Empty nest elderly: in loneliness, human dignity will be lost.
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四年前，作家弋舟做了件让人肃然起敬的事情。
“空巢老人”，我们对这个经常出现在媒体上的词，可能仍有距离感。但弋舟开展了一项关于空巢老人的写作计划，利用一整年的时间，走街串巷，深入乡间，聆听并记录下了二十多个垂暮的故事，真实地描绘出当下中国社会，老人们的生活现状与内心世界。
Four years ago, the writer made a thing to make awe.
"Empty nest old", we often appear in the media on the word, there may still be a sense of distance. But Yi Zhou carried out an empty nest on the old man's writing plan, the use of a whole year, walk the streets, deep into the country, listening and recorded more than twenty dusk story, a true description of the current Chinese society , The living conditions of the old people and the inner world.
最近，我在偶然间读到了这些触及人心的文字，深刻地感受到老人们渴望陪伴但又不得已选择空巢生活的无奈、悲凉与孤独。今天，我想分享给社区朋友们的就是弋舟“空巢老人”系列作品《我在这世上太孤独》。
Recently, I have occasionally read these touching people's text, deeply feel the old people eager to accompany but have no choice of empty nest life helpless, sad and lonely. Today, I would like to share with the community friends is Yi Zhou "empty nest elderly" series of works "I am too lonely in this world."
书写很平淡，我却不禁红了眼眶。我想是因为这些老人们的故事，不仅能在周边的生活中找到对应，甚至其中一部分可能就是我们父母的缩影......
Writing is very flat, but I can not help but red eyes. I think it is because the story of these old people, not only in the surrounding life to find the corresponding, and even part of it may be the epitome of our parents ... ...
最让我感概的就是里面李老和他老伴儿的故事，
他们有一个决定，应当算是他和老伴儿最后的决定了。这个决定他们谁都没有说，只是彼此心照不宣。那就是：如果他们中的一个先走了，另一个就紧随其后，自己结束自己的生命。他们都知道，自己难以承受一个人的老年，一个离世，另一个绝对无法独活。那样实在太孤独了，在孤独中，人的尊严也会丧失干净。李老不认为这是不人道的，相反，他觉得这应该是他们此生最后一个、也是最大的理性。
The most I feel is the inside of Li and his wife, the story of his wife,
They have a decision, should be considered his and his wife's last decision. This decision they did not say anything, but each other tacit. That is: if one of them goes first, the other is followed by the end of their own life. They all know that they can not afford a person's old age, one died, the other can not live alone. So that it is too lonely, in loneliness, human dignity will be lost. Li old do not think this is inhumane, on the contrary, he felt that this should be their last life, but also the greatest reason.
这又让我想到昨天我推荐的纪录片，叫《亲爱的，不要跨过那条江》。不知道为什么，我从纪录片看到的不仅是爱情最好的模样，还有老人的悲哀与无助。感觉就是人一旦老了，就无法抗拒一系列糟糕的事情。身体会不舒服越来越差，人会慢慢衰老，内心会越来越空虚。两个人或许还好一些，但独居老人会凄凉一些，自己一个人实在太孤独了。
This reminds me of the documentary I recommended yesterday, called "my dear, do not cross the river." Do not know why, I see from the documentary is not only the best look of love, as well as the elderly sad and helpless. Feeling that people are old once, it can not resist a series of bad things. The body will be uncomfortable getting worse, people will slowly aging, the heart will be more and more empty. Two people may be better, but living alone will be desolate old, a person is too lonely.
我想到我的爷爷，奶奶前几年去世了，留下爷爷一个人。这几年爷爷实在太孤独了，有时候自己一个人在老家生活，有时候会到子女家住上几天。当然，大多数时间爷爷都是在老家呆着的，他怕麻烦孩子们。有几次我能和爷爷碰面是爷爷过来我们家住的时候，好几次我看到他孤寂的背影有点心酸，爷爷老了，什么娱乐都没有，大多数时间都是一个人坐着发呆，老伴儿也不在了，只留下他一个人孤独。他经常住着住着就说要回老家，爸妈怕他一个人照顾不好自己，但爷爷坚持要回去。我想大概是老家还能有几个朋友说说话吧，对爷爷来说，几个老朋友唠唠嗑也是幸福的。
I thought of my grandfather, my grandmother died a few years ago, leaving my grandfather alone. In recent years my grandfather is too lonely, and sometimes a person living in their own home, sometimes to their children live a few days. Of course, most of the time my grandfather is staying at home, he is afraid of trouble children. There are several times I can meet with my grandfather grandfather came when we live, several times I see his lonely back a little sad, grandfather old, what entertainment are not, most of the time is a person sitting in a daze, his wife children It is not, leaving him alone alone. He often lived and said to go back home, my parents afraid he alone to take care of themselves, but grandfather insisted to go back. I think it is probably home to have a few friends to talk about it, for grandfather, a few old friends chatter nibbling is also happy.
对于七零后八零后来说，现在他们的父母或许就面临着空巢老人这样的问题。而我一个九零后，现在可能还不用考虑这个问题，但我也正在经历。而我想呼吁的是不管你有多忙，多辛苦，多累，也一定要抽时间回家看看，陪陪父母，不要让你的父母成为这样孤独的空巢老人！！！
For the last eight hundred and eight later said that now their parents may face the empty nest of the elderly such a problem. And I am a 90, and now may not have to consider this issue, but I will certainly encounter later. And I want to call is no matter how busy you are, how hard, tired, and must take time to go home to see, to accompany their parents, do not let your parents become such a lonely empty nest elderly!
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