I don't work hard enough
I don't have enough determination
I don't "insert here"
Step one: Define what "winning" means to you
Step two: Read some best selling books on related topics by people who HAVE!!! made it ie. read Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jeff Bezos stuff not mine (these are all business leader but you get the idea, find leaders in family, government, life style ect.)
Step Three: DO
Step Four: Their is no Step four.
"The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” - Theodore Roosevelt
Best Regards,
Dreamryder007