Never invite unwanted things into life. Whatever you feel and see is the product of your mind. When you feel bad things, that means, your mind is stuck in negative energy. When the mind is trapped in negative energy, your job is to get it out and turn it on in a positive energy zone.
The more you want your heart to be grateful for whatever you have, the more beautiful your life will be. If life is beautiful, then pleasure will automatically fill your body and soul.