你是忙人，你是强人，你在实现自己的价值，提升社会地位。
你觉得更加高大上的自己，才能给爱人更大的面子和更好的生活。
于是你忽略了情感交流，没有让爱人感受到你的爱，慢慢心灰意冷。
你的爱人也许不需要一个公务机器人，也许甚至开始怀疑自己是不是多余的，累赘的，碍事的。
图中的姑娘一开始还沉浸在热恋的喜悦中，但是男方却渐渐越来越深入忙碌的公务生活。
她以为如果自己乖一点，克制联系的频率，偶尔发发短信打打电话就能减轻男方的压力，却不知在这个过程中彼此的亲密度也渐渐降低了。
她开始抓狂，开始质问，开始到处寻找他想要见到他有正常情侣的约会生活，有正常情侣恋爱时的你侬我侬。
但是质问的答案总是一样，男方确实在工作；见面的结果也是一样，男方停不下他的工作。
当姑娘从抓狂到哀莫大于心死的时候，她也选择了忙碌。
对啊，忙碌是一种选择。
要感情还是工作，平衡总为妙。
You are a busy person, you are a powerful worker, you are realizing your own value and improving your social status.
You feel that you can give your lover a bigger fame and a better life by having more status.
So you neglected the emotional exchange, did not let the lover feel your love, make your partner slowly disheartened.
Your lover may not need a business robot, and maybe even start to wonder if the relationship is redundant, cumbersome, or brings too much inconvenient.
The girl in the picture was still immersed in the joy of love, but the man gradually became more and more busy in the hustle life.
She thought that if she was a little bit pull away everything would be better.
She restrain the frequency of contact, just occasionally sending a text message or make a phone call.
She thought it would alleviate her man's pressure, but they don't know that the intimacy of each other gradually decreased in the process.
She began to be mad, began to be questioning, began to look around for him to see whether can get a normal dating life back like a normal couple in love.
She text and ask him out, she call to ask him out, she look for him to ask him out, but the answer is always the same - busy.
The man is indeed at work, he can not stop his work.
When the girl switched her madness into grief, she also chose to be busy.
Yes, busy is a choice.
For the relationship or for the work, the balance is always the most important.
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take care, don't be too busy!
别太忙了！为自己，为伴侣！