我并不是一个星座迷，但是有趣的是，我的两位处女座♍️朋友在看了「How to break up 2018」(1)和「How to break up 2018」(2)之后，分别告诉了我相同的分手理由——穷。
I am not a fan of star sign, but today something happened make me a bit interested in star sign -- two Virgo friends told me the same thing about their break up, after they read 「How to break up 2018」(1) and 「How to break up 2018」(2).
They think their boyfriend is "poor".
也许粗略一想，会觉得女孩是不是想要通过恋爱结婚来改变阶层，所以嫌弃穷的人？
并不是，我想我的这两位朋友并不是这样的人。
她们嫌弃的“穷”，是思想上的“穷”，行为上的“穷”。
嫌弃自己男朋友最近最引以为豪的成就是手机游戏里的段位，和朋友圈里的点赞数量。
嫌弃自己对于自己的高标准，匹配上了男朋友觉得拿稳定工资，节衣缩食一辈子的无所事事标准。
The first logic in my mind is -- they want to change there standard and social level by marry a rich man. But no!
They are both very high standard ladies, and born in a good family.
What they don't like about the "poor", is the "poor" of the mind and actions.
They don't like their boyfriend's recent most proud thing is the level of a phone game, or the likes in the social medias(other than steemit).
That is the "poor".
如果不能带动男友共同努力，也许和平分手真的是更好的选择。
If they cannot make process together to fight for the future, cannot make their partner out of the laziness, maybe the peace break up is what they want or need.
总是从女生的观点写分手，真想为男生的分手观点画漫画。
希望大家可以为我评论，告诉我你的故事。
I really hope steemains will give me the chance to tell break up stories not only in girl vision, but also in guys.
And this will need your help to comment bellow or chat with me to tell me your story about your last precious moments in your previous relationships. Your mood, what you went through, or how it happens, it all matters so much to you and everyone who want to be better in their next relationship.
❤️gogo爱你❤️
❤️with love❤️