It is true that communication comes in many forms. It does not just limit to verbal ones because we have non-verbal (body language or signs) means of passing a message to another person. What's just important if this is the case is that, we know the meaning of those non-verbal actions for us to clearly understand what the other person is trying to say in order to avoid misunderstanding.
Today, I want to share to all of you some sort of non-verbal communication that ladies are trying to establish with the gentlemen using handkerchiefs. Please feel free to read what's written below.
Handkerchief flirting of the 1800s involved the following signals:
Drawing it across the cheek — I love you.
Drawing it across the eyes — I am sorry.
Drawing it across the forehead — Look, we are watched.
Drawing it through the hands — I hate you.
Drawing it across the lips — Desiring an acquaintance.
Dropping it — We will be friends.
Folding it — I wish to speak with you.
Letting it rest on the left cheek — No.
Letting it rest on the right cheek — Yes.
Letting it remain on the eyes — You are so cruel.
Opposite corners in both hands — Do wait for me.
Over the shoulder — Follow me.
Placing it over the right ear — How you have changed.
Putting it in the pocket — No more love at present.
Taking it by the center — You are most too willing.
Twisting it in the left hand — I wish to be rid of you.
Twisting it in the right hand — I love another.
Winding it around the forefinger — I am engaged.
Winding it around the third finger — I am married.
References:
Carroll, Mitchell, etal., Woman in All Ages and in All Countries, 1908
Earle, Alice Morse, Two Centuries of Costume in America, Vol. 1, 1903
“Handkerchief Flirtation,” Taranaki Herald, 1891
Fisher, J., The Little Flirt, 1871
Journal of the Telegraph, Volumes 1 and 2, 1869
Morton, Agnes H., Etiquette, 1892
Shafer, Daniel R,. Secrets of Life Unveiled, 1877
The Nunnery for Coquettes, 1771