Relationships are part and parcel of living, we are a product of several relationships we have come across. Overtime, I have heard of people complain of their partners, on how boring their communication is.
According to recent research by psychologists, talking about your feeling is not the only or each the best way to maintain healthy happy, successful relationships. There are some ways on which your relationships can be improved without mentioning your feelings.
- Make small talk; This is tested and trusted. The small talks about a TV show, a post I found amusing on Facebook improves relationship, making the small talks may sound and look too unnecessary because it is sometime too detailed. It creates intimacy.
- Share experiences don’t ask for them; You can hold your partner’s hand unconsciously.
- Listen carefully; You don’t have to be the one whose lips are moving, also cultivate the habit of listening. Knowing that you are being heard is one of the experience most likely to cement a feeling of connection to another.
- Avoid assumptions and ask questions
- Talk about yourself, but give room for your partner’s expression.
- Find a way of sharing insignificant experiences together; Overtime I have found out that memories made out of insignificant actions are somewhat the best. For example, you both are gazing at the TV, seeing a series, then you got talking about the actors which might result into pillow fight.
You can give your partner your all, if you are ready to stay committed.