This is the most difficult thing among many people and so many think of only themselves something which is so bad and does not count in the eyes of our heavenly father. This is normally from a certain mind set which people carry from the time of their growth to adulthood and i have to point this out because it has tremendously destroyed society in the moral ans social set up of existing communities around the entire world. What is the point in what am saying? Lets examine that in the next segment of this article.
What do i mean by being self centered in this writing today?
Being self centered actually refers to a habit or behaviour where people tend to only concentrate onself intentions only and not minding or caring about others. This is not a good thing but its something which is very common in the world and these normally vary from locality to another of people's differences. I have witnessed this and perhaps experienced it my life as i grew up, there is aperson from our community who only cared about her children only and putting nothing on those who were not hers and this is so bad as i looked at.
Being self centered is a horrible thing because time can limit what you may pursuing and becoming destitute something many people dont thing can happen to them yet there is nothing under the sun ecclesiates say so. There there is no need to be so self fish but atleast look out for the interest of others simply because a blessing comes from there. In this case try to be considerate to others and be there for them and what i have witnessed that these people are normally orphans or step children who suffer such things. Many of people in this circle normally undergo such mistreatments and isolation and there is no logistic to measure such unless such a person reports such to authorities for liberation.
In my opinion lets be good and behave like our father in heavena and seek the guidance on how we should conduct ourselves in such scenerios because its the gate way to goodness of a particular person. Therefore comform to what is acceptable and lean to what is godly.