If you read the first part, you understand that I insist ... I will not teach you how to be a father but from my point of view I will find tips that have worked for me to carry out an effective, effective relationship in my home.
On many occasions our offspring, by external influences of their friends, schoolmates, cousins, to listen to conversations with the foundation of other adults, come to evidence the request to do things that are in our eyes are not quite right.
Now, what to do when we are attacked by situations of this type?
First I will give an example. suppose that our children are in the lapse of about 7 or 8 years of age, in which they settle and want to interact in environments beyond our reach such as going to the park alone, going to the movies, making PAJAMADAS in the house of their friends .
the first is the first thing, since it is small and safe, the lies do not do it because mom and dad can solve what they need, always in a good way. God is always watching and listening, ask and you will always be well. and that's why you use them to use your children.
we must relate to the parents of our children's friends, to know their environment, their way of relating to their children, in their jobs, to know their lifestyle, to know about them as much as possible since this will be decisive when knowing the Possible attitudes of your friends and how our children will be treated.
Another thing is, even when they insist on setting themselves up without the supervision of adults, we can not access such a thing. There are many dangers in the world, in communities, families, so always, always must accompany a responsible adult to supervise the activities that the little ones want to perform.
Now when our children have grown up, they are of legal age, in other words; young adults, we can not intervene as we did when we were young, in a certain way we must have faith that our father's task was well done and will continue to be.
We must always be present in your life, be it advisors, confidants, showing you examples but from a more serene and objective way to grant them confidence and in a way to see that they can make their own decisions and that these will be very good.
However, we must instruct them at all times, either by showing them examples, anecdotes of how they could do if they do things in a certain way, in order to let them build their idea of what would be better and what would not be so good. This will strengthen the relationship of parents and children, also allowing them to act and choose as adults what is best for them.
parents always have faith, prayer and trust in God, we will always want the best for our children. From our love even when we know them and we know they are good little people and they will do all the best because that is what we teach them, we always need extra help that is never the case; for that reason and knowing that it is the best, we go to the heavenly father "God", who always responds and supports us, giving us the stability of providing the necessary to our own.
as protective beings, which is our essence as parents, we would like to take care of our children all our lives, but this would not be fair for any of the parties, since the priority is to train healthy and independent adults, who can take care of themselves, be able to seek and find solutions and lead an excellent life, until it is time to pass on to another generation, our teachings.
Until another opportunity dear steemians.