Whether you’re in a relationship or not all men at some point if not many points (or even all day long) wonder what is that one thing that all women are attracted to and cannot resist?
As a master results and life skills coach I’ve written several top-selling Amazon books on relationships and dating, and to this day one thing sticks out in my mind as the most important thing a man needs to focus on. This isn’t just guesswork, in order to give my readers real data and help them succeed I ran a poll on Facebook to roughly 300,000 women with over 2,000 respondents asking:
“What is the most important thing that attracts you to a man?”
Can you guess what women wanted the most? Over 90% of my polling in one-way shape or form led to one word: “Confidence!” You may have heard this before, but when you look around in society and you see a really beautiful woman with a not so handsome man most people will simply attribute this to wealth or status. While this may be the case in some instances, the majority is actually due to a man’s high level of confidence.
What else are women attracted to? It comes down to 10 main things. If you work on these, women can’t resist you; they simply don’t have a choice. Even if they are in a relationship when you possess these 10 qualities they have to pay attention to you. Why? It's part of our wiring from caveman/cavewoman days, where we developed our reptilian brain, which need to produce strong offspring in order to perpetuate the human species. It’s pretty deep stuff and I go into all of this in my book "How To Get A Girlfriend – The Ultimate Guide," which you can read for more detailed info, but basically here are the 10 main attraction factors:
Top 10 Things Women Are Attracted To:
Fame – You’re in the Public eye (actor, musician, teacher, politician, leader, etc.)
Power – You are a leader, you have influence over others, etc.
Security – You possess financial security; give gifts and other material things.
Sex Appeal – You Look Attractive: Face, Physique, Height, Voice, Hair, Clothes, Posture, Breath, Smell, Body Language, etc.
Self Confidence – Can do it attitude, take the lead, you don’t second guess, ambitious, etc.
Desirable Personality – You’re interesting, humorous, cultured, etc.
Intelligence – You read a lot, you’re well studied and have answers others don’t.
Chivalrous – You open doors, you show respect for her and others opinions.
Charm / Romance – You take the time to warm her up with candles, incense, music; you say things that make her feel good about herself.
You Like Kids – Women are attracted to men who they perceive as liking children.
While some of these may be out of your control like fame and power, these only make a woman feel a certain way, which can be duplicated through the other means of attraction. Again this is explained in my book, but even more important is how do you get more confidence, which will virtually guarantee more attraction.
Once I learned about the confidence factor, I took two years and wrote another book called: "The Triad of Unbreakable Confidence." Since confidence is a two way street, my goal was to give both men and women the ability to step their game up 5 notches in any area including being more attractive to the opposite sex. It turns out there are 3 main areas of confidence, which when handled can make massive changes in financial fortune, attracting love, building health and just about every other area of life.
For instance, confidence in the physical realm may make you feel good from working out, but when you get slammed with a massive tax bill or life threatening illness, you need a whole other level of confidence that allows you to shake off the blow if not duck it all together.
Without confidence, lets face it, success is but a dream. Please feel free to share your experience in your life where confidence or lack thereof has shaped your results.