In today's world of either broadcasting or consuming information, people seem to have forgotten how to really listen. In this episode, we explore how we have arrived at this point where we can no longer listen to other people or our environment, and how to re-learn that crucial skill. We talk about different ways of listening, frameworks we can use to understand people better, as well as practical steps towards becoming better listeners.
In This Episode of Future Thinkers:
- How being immersed in a constant noise of information affects our mind
- The lack of opportunities to be still and listen to someone else or your environment
- Listening as a three-dimensional experience
- The goal of active listening and the "ping test"
- Possible causes of unwillingness to understand others' perspectives
- Did people's attention skills really decrease in recent years?
- Practical ways to improve our listening skills
- Using the internet to express yourself and characteristics of online interactions
- Different frameworks for understanding people's behaviors and basic needs
Mentions and Resources:
- How To Win Friends and Influence People, a book by Dale Carnegie
- Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life, a book by Marshall B. Rosenberg
- Prometheus Rising, a book by Robert Anton Wilson
- On Becoming A Person, a book by Carl Rogers
- A Theory of Everything: An Integral Vision for Business, Politics, Science and Spirituality, a book by Ken Wilber
- Tony Robbins: Your Mind is the Key to Your Success, motivational video
- How To Be a Good Listener (And Why Bother), a talk by Jordan Peterson
More From Future Thinkers:
- Digital Nomadism and Radical Self-Responsibility (FTP068)
- Becoming More Adaptive as A Key Skill For The Future (FTP067)
- Finite and Infinite Games (FTP066)
- Jordan Peterson on Failed Utopias, Mapping the Mind and Finding Meaning (FTP038)
