I honestly believe anyone who describe himself as any type radfem or whatever has fallen for a trap set up by evil corporation to divide people and keep them arguing on the internet, these kind of gender wars are stupid and lead no where. Women having to spend a ton of money on makeup is literally just marketing that worked very well, tho I agree that industries based on giving women insecurities are real and a big problem made by big corpo who themselves use feminism for their image,though men also have these types of pressure but they just dont care(ex: shoe soles that make you look taller,magic lotions that gives you a beard...etc)(maybe not as much tbh). No one ever said that women are not free to be fat,though I agree that fat people are usually treated unfairly(which is stupid because that wont motivate them to lose weight). I agree that the standards of a man that should be kind, understanding, fit, etc are literally bare minimum, sometime they become confusing which is ok no one is perfect.
Some people make it seem like men live a miserable life while women go around doing what they want which is not true at all, yes women have suffered from misogyny, rape and all kind of disgusting stuff, yes most men throughout history had to go to war, work a hard labour job, most humans for most of history had it very rough and it was a universal experience.
men cheat just as much as women do, but it is true that it is easier for women to find partners, but most women arent going around hopping having relationship with random people , it might be surprising for terracore these internet idiots but most people are normal and dont live the life of random influencers you see on tiktok.